The Complete Anger Course
32 lessons in six parts. The full program from the app, free to read, at your own pace. Every lesson has a short idea, an exercise, and a video.
Part 1 · Understand your anger
Before you can manage anger, you have to know what it actually is.
Part 2 · Catch it early
Anger is far easier to steer at a 3 than at an 8. This part is about awareness.
Part 3 · Calm the storm
Hands-on tools for the body and mind, for the moment the heat rises.
Part 4 · Say it cleanly
How to be heard without making things worse.
Part 5 · Work it out
When someone else is angry, or you're deep in a conflict.
Part 6 · Make it last
Turn all of this into a practice that survives real life.
The research behind this book
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- Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. Bantam Books. (Origin of the term “amygdala hijack”.)
- Taylor, J. B. (2008). My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey. Viking. (The roughly 90-second life of an emotional surge.)
- Balban, M. Y., Neri, E., Kogon, M. M., Weed, L., Nouriani, B., Jo, B., Holl, G., Zeitzer, J. M., Spiegel, D., & Huberman, A. D. (2023). Brief structured respiration practices enhance mood and reduce physiological arousal. Cell Reports Medicine, 4(1), 100895.
- Zaccaro, A., Piarulli, A., Laurino, M., Garbella, E., Menicucci, D., Neri, B., & Gemignani, A. (2018). How breath-control can change your life: a systematic review on psycho-physiological correlates of slow breathing. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 12, 353.
- Lieberman, M. D., Eisenberger, N. I., Crockett, M. J., Tom, S. M., Pfeifer, J. H., & Way, B. M. (2007). Putting feelings into words: affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychological Science, 18(5), 421–428.
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- McCallie, M. S., Blum, C. M., & Hood, C. J. (2006). Progressive muscle relaxation. Journal of Human Behavior in the Social Environment, 13(3), 51–66.
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- Fisher, R., & Ury, W. (2011). Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In (3rd ed.). Penguin Books.
- Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Crown.
- Rogers, C. R., & Farson, R. E. (1957). Active Listening. Industrial Relations Center, University of Chicago.
- Deffenbacher, J. L., Oetting, E. R., & DiGiuseppe, R. A. (2002). Principles of empirically supported interventions applied to anger management. The Counseling Psychologist, 30(2), 262–280.
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